Choosing The Life Partner And The Role Of A Father
I may find a prince someday but you will always be my king.
Your little girl”
This description defines the emotion of every daughter towards her father. The man who will correct her mistakes, hold her when she falls, and take pride when she succeeds. Seeing her daughter crossing milestones of success before him is simply an ethereal experience. Fathers are more attached to their daughters and will fight the world for their happiness. They may be strict or pokey, but the reason behind such behaviour is to fetch the best for their little girl, no matter what age she reaches. But, there are certain circumstances that can make their relationship sour.
- Because My Dad Is My Hero, But: It is the universal truth that for every father, his daughter is her princess and for every daughter, her father is her hero. The first man in every girl’s life is her father, the man who will never break her heart and will fight the world for her happiness. He does everything to bring a smile to her face and raises her like a princess. But, in some cases, it isn’t the truth. Some unfortunate girls are fathered by a man that doesn’t respect women, has ill-treated his wife and is a drunkard or a womanizer. Females that have gone through such situations become sensitive. While choosing their life partner, they try to figure out if there’s a bad reflection in their prince charming.
- Too Stringent Is Equivalent To Pressurizing: Every man, who is a father to a female child, is extremely conscious about her surroundings that include her peer group. To ensure the safety and a right upbringing, fathers having a girl child have stringent behaviour. It is considered acceptable but to a limit. When that limit is crossed, any girl will feel that her dad has turned pokey and bats an eye on her with each movement. Moreover, it is also perceived as family pressure by others due to the patriarchal society.
- You Caress Me Like My Dad: Blessed is a man that hears such words from his wife/fiancee. There are no chances for pondering over this. It simply tells that she is in love with the right soul. A man, who looks after her like her father, protects her like her father and loves her like her father is “the guy” for a girl. If a lady sees the reflection of her dad in her fiancee/spouse (in a positive manner), there aren’t doubts that she is going to spend a happy married life after getting hitched to that man.
- If A Woman Fears Men Or Has Trust Issues: At a young age, I witnessed horrible times. I saw my father badly arguing and thrashing my mother. She could do nothing because he was a dominant soul. I usually cried to sleep.” Such descriptions are heart-wrenching and leave a negative impact on children. Growing up under such circumstances gives, especially to a female child, trust issues. They simply avoid trusting men and also have a fear of meeting such a man in married life. This kind of unruly behaviour of male members of the family has turned out to be the reason for psychological problems in women.
Parents, especially fathers, play a key role in a woman’s life. When it comes to his daughter, he becomes extra conscious about everything related to his little girl. He would work like a jackass to assure she gets the best of everything in life. Though, such things might be considered pokey by some daughters, understanding a father’s love for his daughter is hard and beyond boundaries.